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Police Me Too has been set up by a victim/survivor

Amplifying the voices of women and girls who were abused by police instead of protected.
Each and every one of us deserves to be heard.
So, let’s show every police force that it isn’t just ‘one bad apple’, but their culture. We need structural and systemic changes to address the institutionalised misogyny and the closing of ranks. We need it to change. Now.

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Freya | Domestic violence, rape and child abuse

I was married to a violent and abusive police officer. They pushed me out in front of a car when I was 5 months’ pregnant. They abused me physically, sexually, psychologically, and financially. I was not allowed to spend my own money. I was so coercively controlled by them, I

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Gypsygirl | False imprisonment experience

I was wrongly arrested for a false allegation against me. I was making a witness statement at the time to police as I had escaped a domestic abuse situation, where my ex partner was verbally aggressive and trying to prevent me leaving the hotel room. I was scared so I

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MsB | Polish national who they won’t deport

This is my email to Surrey Police, with a few edits for this site (dates etc). Here is an update on the situation between me and ****. I've left him now after an incident involving anal rape and his stabbing me with a fork whilst I was asleep. I appreciate

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Katie | Bullied at work

I joined the met wanting to work in a respectable rewarding career. I joined CID to make a bigger difference. More than once I was bullied as a means to someones promotion. The last time was for over a year, I was belittled in front of the department, sergeants admitted

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Lost | Outed by police

I have autism and struggled with my sexuality and was arrested for a crime commited against me as I was a victim of grooming as a child. The police outed my sexuality to my family against my will. This has destroyed my life and caused me to have severe anxiety

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MJ | Domestic abuse from a serving police officer

I am a serving police officer and in [date redacted for legal reasons] I reported another police officer for controlling and coercive behaviour against myself. No thorough investigation was conducted. This man took all of my life savings, over £13,000. I was 20 years old at the time of this

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Ana | Police officer sexually assaulted me

I was working in the train from Paris to London, and a French customs police who was traveling with us jumped on me when I was opening the train doors and kissed me in the mouth in front of all the passengers.It was disgusting, embarrassing and demeaning. I reported it

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Harassed | Sex offending police

I’ve been seriously harassed by a police officer for around four years. I have tried to get help but they gang up. Constabulary: Police Scotland Timespan: The past four years Did you report it to the police?: Yes Do you want to revisit this with the police?: No Could you

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Silenced | Married narcissist.

I married my ex who then became a policeman. He abused me financially, mentally and was controlling. I reported him and he turned it around and actually made up false allegations. I’ve been interviewed more than once. And the police cover for him and take his side. He’s trying to

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Alice | Abused by police

My ex husband who was abusive asked his police friend to call the police on me, the police came to my house and beat me up there and then. They then took me to the station where they left me naked for several hours with the cell door open and

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#wontbesilent | Story of corruption

I have a story about senior police officers in Manchester [ranks redacted for legal reasons] and [redacted for legal reasons] creating a report to cover up their officer PC from not recording an attempted rape which was reported in 2020. Senior officer [redacted for legal reasons] would try and frame

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