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Police Me Too has been set up by a victim/survivor

Amplifying the voices of women and girls who were abused by police instead of protected.
Each and every one of us deserves to be heard.
So, let’s show every police force that it isn’t just ‘one bad apple’, but their culture. We need structural and systemic changes to address the institutionalised misogyny and the closing of ranks. We need it to change. Now.

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*Please note that stories submitted here are moderated so it could take a little time before we publish them to the site – please bear with us!

Freya | Domestic violence, rape and child abuse

I was married to a violent and abusive police officer. They pushed me out in front of a car when I was 5 months’ pregnant. They abused me physically, sexually, psychologically, and financially. I was not allowed to spend my own money. I was so coercively controlled by them, I

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Justice4me | Police assault

After 48 years of silence I told the police I was molested. They interviewed the pedophiles and one claimed he never met me despite him being my cousin and he was at our home most weeks. They failed to investigate properly. Christmas my sons received Christmas cards from one of

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Lucy | PC assaulted me when I was 14

A PC aged 33 at the time, married into the family. I was a teenager, 14. There were a lot of red flags that couldn’t really be read by someone so young. Sometimes there would be other police officers around & they would make weird comments about my body &

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Starbright | Pulled over at night, age 16

First, a police officer pulled me over late one night. I was 16, almost 17. I was driving home along the highway between Kihei and Wailuku, which ran through the sugar cane fields. We left Maui less than a year afterward but at the time I was still in Hawaii.

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| Strip searched!

I was a young 16 year old girl back in the 80’s and got arrested for an offence that to this day I still do not know what for. I was detained for over 7 hours and not given access to a phone call or even a solicitor. I was

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Louise | Sexual assault

I was walking out of a club when a man I didn’t know reached under my skirt and underwear and grabbed me. I was furious about the incident. The people I was with knew him, and someone very close to me told me he was a police officer. He was

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Kelly | Failings of South Wales Police

I met my future husband, a South Wales Police Officer in 2000. He was 15 years my senior. I was unaware that prior to him joining the police residents in the local community had reported their concerns to police about the risk he posed to young females. I was also

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Flying | Coercive control, financial abuse

  Married to an officer for over 10 years. Attempted to leave multiple times. Was threatened with being done for child kidnapping if I left with the kids and child abandonment if I dared leave without them. Eventually they were arrested for assaulting me and removed from the home- but

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Milly |

  I married a police officer in the 1970s He was abusive, physical and emotional. He was a firearms officer and threatened me and the children. I called the police endlessly, as did neighbours. It was I that was threatened. He stayed in his job, I had a complete breakdown.

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Jay | GMP failures and corruption

  My husband is a narcissist. He has abused me psychologically, emotionally, financially and sexually. I have been raped, sexually assaulted, harassed, stalked, gaslighted and controlled, all reported to GMP yet nothing has been done as I am in the unfortunate position of my husband working for the same force.

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Avocet. | Misogynistic Police Failure.

I was with a narcissistic abuser for several years. Who stalked me, psychologically abused me, gaslighting, devaluing and degraded me. Coercive control, sexual harassment, physically violent at times. I reported everything to GMP and they inflicted further abuse upon me by laughing at me and gaslighting me. They even ignored

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Transport police at ebsfleet | CCTV not working

I went to Belgium from ebsfleet. Upon my return I was at passport control and the officer pointed at his computer screen and said ‘was you there for your birthday’? … I didn’t understand what he meant so I turned to look at the screen. He shouted at me to

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| Police corruption-using power for own purpose

I have been dealing with Kent police for the last 4 & half years. There has been a lot of misconduct & corruption within the force. They allow perpetrators to continue breaking the law because if they don’t then their misconduct would be revealed. In the past I have reported

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