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Police Me Too has been set up by a victim/survivor

Amplifying the voices of women and girls who were abused by police instead of protected.
Each and every one of us deserves to be heard.
So, let’s show every police force that it isn’t just ‘one bad apple’, but their culture. We need structural and systemic changes to address the institutionalised misogyny and the closing of ranks. We need it to change. Now.

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Charlie | Preyed on when vulnerable

I reported my controlling ex to Police after he was threatening my job etc and two males arrived because I had told police I was suicidal. When they left, one continued to text me and kept complimenting me, asking what gym I went to and if he could follow me

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Hannah | Casual misogyny

This is not a story of abuse or assault but just the alarming racism and misogyny normalised in the police force. My car broke down on a high speed road and the RAC advised I call the police first. One officer was so polite to me on the phone with

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Jane | Officer on hook up site

I was on a dating site for hook ups. Got a message from a police officer. He introduced himself as an officer, said I was ‘safe’ with him and said he was good with handcuffs. He had half naked photos wearing enough of his police uniform to show he was

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Catlady | ‘He likes the vulnerable ones’

On a night out in a bar, lots of cops on team nights out. Got chatting to a group of male officers, one of whom took quite an interest in me. He was attractive, I was flattered. I remember one of his mates saying ‘watch out, he likes the vulnerable

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StoppedInSurrey | Late night traffic stop

Driving home from a night out, completely sober and alone. 2 x male Officers pulled me over having followed me for several miles with no headlights on, and then put on the blues out of nowhere. I was terrified (aged 20). They aggressively questioned me and threatened to arrest me

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Girlalone | Predatory behaviour online

During 2018 I was very depressed due a a close relative passing away 18 months before. The police officer messaged me online, saying he’d also suffered cancer and I could message him anytime for support, I could trust him as he worked for the police and was not (in his

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Clare | Rape, violence and control

Shortly after giving birth, my ex husband began raping me whilst I was asleep and then became aggressive when I woke and told him to stop. I suffered lots of bruising (of which I have photos) and I was an absolute wreck and not sleeping, and when I tried to

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Sara78 | Sexual harassment / stalking

I worked for the police and shortly dated an officer. I quickly ended things but he wouldn’t leave me alone and it was intimidating and frightening. I complained and was moved to another location. Constabulary: N/A or Prefer not to say Timespan: 2016 Did you report it to the police?:

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| Raped by police officer husband

He gave me Amitriptyline ostensibly to help me sleep but at least one time he raped me in our bed. I was groggy with sleep but clearly told him no. I don’t know what happened all the other times he gave me these pills. I only started wondering after we

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Sarah | Domestic Violence living with a CID Detective

I lived with a CID detective for 5 years. Throughout the duration of the relationship he subjected me to emotional, financial, and physical abuse, along with coercive control. He was an alcoholic, would drink bottles of vodka on his days off like it was water. The neighbours called the police

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Caroline | Falsely Accused by a Manipulator’s Lies

I am currently experiencing the most surreal, distressing, and bullying scenario at the hands of Hampshire Constabulary, which can only be described as either a bad joke or a bad dream. Two members of Police Staff have made false accusations of irrationality, by the manipulation of my abusive ex partner’s

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Jade | Coercive control & sexual assault

Constabulary: Cheshire Constabulary Timespan: 2016 onwards Did you report it to the police?: Yes Your ethnicity: White British Have you experienced suicidality due to this?: Attempted suicide once Are you disabled as defined under the Equality Act 2010?: No

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Musiclover | Predatory approach

I was arrested for suspected shoplifting with a sibling. I was let go as I didn’t commit an offence. My car was locked in a town centre car park as it had closed.A police officer said he would come to the car park and get my car released. Just before

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Inner warrior | Sexually abused by police officers

I was recruited as an informant, over the course of 5yrs. During those years I was sexually harassed, and assaulted by 4 police officers. I was raped by one of them outside on the ground.     Constabulary: N/A or Prefer not to say Timespan: 3 decades ago Did you

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Martha | Policeman ‘wiped’ his hands on me

Policeman closed his van doors, said “Eugh” and wiped his hands with pressure on my arm. It was at a Road Safety event for children 🙁 I reported to the organiser but never heard back.         Constabulary: Avon and Somerset Police Timespan: Last year Did you report

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Jody 73 | Manipulation

I’ve just ended a relationship with a police officer. I’m broken. Very quickly I seen red flags I questioned his separation, why he was at his ex house a lot, he stayed when the kids were sick. Ended it numerous times as I suspected it was an affair. He begged

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