I was with a narcissistic abuser for several years. Who stalked me, psychologically abused me, gaslighting, devaluing and degraded me. Coercive control, sexual harassment, physically violent at times. I reported everything to GMP and they inflicted further abuse upon me by laughing at me and gaslighting me. They even ignored
Good evening I am very very upset I was 6 years in a relationship with a Police men he emotionally abuse me and left his hands on me it was going on for 4 years he begins with emotional abuse 1 month ago he come from work and he start
I went to Belgium from ebsfleet. Upon my return I was at passport control and the officer pointed at his computer screen and said ‘was you there for your birthday’? … I didn’t understand what he meant so I turned to look at the screen. He shouted at me to
I have been dealing with Kent police for the last 4 & half years. There has been a lot of misconduct & corruption within the force. They allow perpetrators to continue breaking the law because if they don’t then their misconduct would be revealed. In the past I have reported
I was a PCDA student and being in the police was my ambition. My family didn’t like the idea of being in the armed forces, so I compromised. Coming from a working class area with poverty and underachievement around me, I did get initial flak in the processing stage from
A police officer found my details after I reported sexual harassment/ exploitation. He added me on all my social media accounts. Befriended me, groomed me and gained my trust. He turns the conversation sexual on Snapchat and at first it was really inappropriate explicit language like wanting to pound me,
Details of SA and r**e Love bombed in the beginning with gifts and “I love you” weeks after we met. He was coercive and controlling with sex very early on, was often guilted or pressured into performing when I didn’t want to, despite knowing my history with abuse (or actually
I’m not ‘woke’. I’m not a prude. I can take a joke. Joining the Police, I thought I was joining a professional organisation. I couldn’t have been more wrong. It’s a toxic culture. It’s a boys club, not what you know but who you know. And they all protect each
It was a typical girls night out, enjoying the music and drinks flowing. During the end of the night I noticed my bag was missing, with my money and phone. I searched everywhere, whilst my friends were chatting with the bouncers. I had one last attempt to search going back
My sister was on a night out with a friend and at some point they both stopped having any memory of that night. Her friend was found by the “street angels” Samaritans and they helped call someone to pick her up. But my sister woke up in a hotel next
I am a victim of DV. My husband abuses me then calls the police and claims that I am the one abusing him. I have been arrested 4 times over the past 3 years since meeting him for things I have not done. The police dont listen to my cries
I took blame because he said I made him that way, that I drove him to drink, and I was such a bad wife that justified his adultery. I excused and minimized whilst trying to adapt my behaviours to prevent further abuse happening. As things continued to escalate, to him
On the [redacted for legal reasons]. Two officers came to my door. Entered without a warrant or permission. This was to arrest my daughter who does not live with me. Officer [redacted for legal reasons] then attempted to grab my daughter (there are stairs behind my front door). Because she
My story started with an illegal arrest of breaching a family court order, a malicious report by my own abusive family. Police put me on the Police national computer database and portrayed me as a criminal. Then violent police swat raids began at my home just after I gave birth
From the age of 6/7 I was SA as a child. At age 9 SS & police were involved due to another family member making a report to the police by my perpetrator. I was separated from him but somehow he had access & threatened if I said anything I’d
I made the mistake of having a short lived relationship with a work colleague who was based in a different office. I discovered child porn on his laptop and I ended the relationship. I was pregnant but lost the baby. He sent me threatening messages through Facebook and by email.
The Inquiry heard repeatedly how institutions prioritised their own reputations, and those of individuals within them, above the protection of children. That’s what the Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse published in their concluding report on Thursday. This was a statutory public inquiry held under the Inquiries Act.The police, though.
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