Your stories

Clare | Rape, violence and control

Shortly after giving birth, my ex husband began raping me whilst I was asleep and then became aggressive when I woke and told him to stop. I suffered lots of bruising (of which I have photos) and I was an absolute wreck and not sleeping, and when I tried to

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Sara78 | Sexual harassment / stalking

I worked for the police and shortly dated an officer. I quickly ended things but he wouldn’t leave me alone and it was intimidating and frightening. I complained and was moved to another location. Constabulary: N/A or Prefer not to say Timespan: 2016 Did you report it to the police?:

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| Raped by police officer husband

He gave me Amitriptyline ostensibly to help me sleep but at least one time he raped me in our bed. I was groggy with sleep but clearly told him no. I don’t know what happened all the other times he gave me these pills. I only started wondering after we

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Sarah | Domestic Violence living with a CID Detective

I lived with a CID detective for 5 years. Throughout the duration of the relationship he subjected me to emotional, financial, and physical abuse, along with coercive control. He was an alcoholic, would drink bottles of vodka on his days off like it was water. The neighbours called the police

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Caroline | Falsely Accused by a Manipulator’s Lies

I am currently experiencing the most surreal, distressing, and bullying scenario at the hands of Hampshire Constabulary, which can only be described as either a bad joke or a bad dream. Two members of Police Staff have made false accusations of irrationality, by the manipulation of my abusive ex partner’s

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Jade | Coercive control & sexual assault

Constabulary: Cheshire Constabulary Timespan: 2016 onwards Did you report it to the police?: Yes Your ethnicity: White British Have you experienced suicidality due to this?: Attempted suicide once Are you disabled as defined under the Equality Act 2010?: No

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Musiclover | Predatory approach

I was arrested for suspected shoplifting with a sibling. I was let go as I didn’t commit an offence. My car was locked in a town centre car park as it had closed.A police officer said he would come to the car park and get my car released. Just before

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Inner warrior | Sexually abused by police officers

I was recruited as an informant, over the course of 5yrs. During those years I was sexually harassed, and assaulted by 4 police officers. I was raped by one of them outside on the ground.     Constabulary: N/A or Prefer not to say Timespan: 3 decades ago Did you

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Martha | Policeman ‘wiped’ his hands on me

Policeman closed his van doors, said “Eugh” and wiped his hands with pressure on my arm. It was at a Road Safety event for children 🙁 I reported to the organiser but never heard back.         Constabulary: Avon and Somerset Police Timespan: Last year Did you report

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Jody 73 | Manipulation

I’ve just ended a relationship with a police officer. I’m broken. Very quickly I seen red flags I questioned his separation, why he was at his ex house a lot, he stayed when the kids were sick. Ended it numerous times as I suspected it was an affair. He begged

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Samantha | Inappropriate looks

Last year I went out for my friends birthday and we went clubbing. Afterwards I was walking up and down the road looking for a right spot to book my Uber, when I was walking past two male officers. One of the officers gave me a very sexualised look up

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Lorraine | Cruel & coercive

My story comes in 2 parts. Before my daughter was born & after. I was in a 7 year relationship with a serving police officer who I was totally besotted with. It’s true that the worse they treat you the more you are besotted by them. I was police staff.

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No One is Listening | Police Staff Abuse

I was subject to racist and sexist harassment while working for the Police. One particular male police staff who was on the same pay grade came across as weird and made my life there hell to the point I never want to work for the Police ever again. This male

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Lisa | Controlling stalky ex-officer

An ex police officer and now an ex teacher.He uses so many variations of his name to cover his tracks.He’s the most unsettling person I’ve come across. We were never in a relationship. Colleagues whose paths crossed. He became intense, troubling so. Colleagues raised concerns regarding his possessiveness. I couldn’t

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Rachel | Bullying

I work in the police. I’ve experienced bullying and harassment from male police officers-some senior. They know they can get away with it because all of us are too scared to report it to psd. All the people who work in the professional standards team know everyone-they drink together, they

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Workingwelshmama |

I experienced seven years of domestic abuse after I left my husband, who is a serving police officer. I complained to the police that I was being harassed and a senior officer told me it was “just divorce”; nothing was ever done, no crimes were recorded and no action was

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