I worked with a civilian employee of the police force. We got on well at work and I considered him a friend. He got a new job and we would occasionally message.
When he found my long term partner and I had broken up, his messages increased in frequency and the tone changed. Even though he was married, he would be increasingly suggestive and flirtatious.
I was living on my own with my baby and one night he turned up, drunk to the block of flats I lived at, constantly calling and texting to know my door number and wanting to come in. He eventually left after I told him he was scaring me. He messaged the next day asking what he did wrong. I blocked him.
Constabulary: Metropolitan Police Service
Did you report it to the police?: No
Your ethnicity: White British
Have you experienced suicidality due to this?: No
Are you disabled as defined under the Equality Act 2010?: No