Jessica | Won’t take no for an answer

I worked with a civilian employee of the police force. We got on well at work and I considered him a friend. He got a new job and we would occasionally message.

When he found my long term partner and I had broken up, his messages increased in frequency and the tone changed. Even though he was married, he would be increasingly suggestive and flirtatious.

I was living on my own with my baby and one night he turned up, drunk to the block of flats I lived at, constantly calling and texting to know my door number and wanting to come in. He eventually left after I told him he was scaring me. He messaged the next day asking what he did wrong. I blocked him.

Constabulary: Metropolitan Police Service

Timespan: 2016-2018

Did you report it to the police?: No

Your ethnicity: White British

Have you experienced suicidality due to this?: No

Are you disabled as defined under the Equality Act 2010?: No

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