I met this male as my weed dealer when my sister passed away, through a family member, he started being nice and chatty, I thought he was just trying to be a mate, how wrong was I!!
He found me on Facebook and added me explaining he sometimes hasn’t got phone credit. Didn’t think much of it, till I went to his one day for some weed and he started flirting trying to get me into bed.
I cut all ties with this guy, wow worst mistake ever, he started hanging outside my house, threatened me, hanging around my child’s school, tried running me over, messages, phone calls over 450 in 1 night. Contacted South Wales Police done a statement, he was arrested and remanded as on bail for another crime against a female.
He did get out on his birthday and on bail not to contact me, didn’t stop him, sent his friends to harass and intimidate me! Police did nothing!!!
Went to court! Had phone call off cps apparently don’t need to give evidence as case dismissed.
Moved Area quite a distance like x2 bus journeys, still during covid this male got his girlfriend to find out my address, he’s set up fake accounts on Facebook stole my niece photos posing as my child? Has been stalking me at my new address, reported it so many times to South Wales Police its unreal, in 2022, this male kidnapped me took me for a drive, constantly put me down, then told me he was going to hurt me, and boy did he. He strangled me, slapped me, stripped me naked at his flat he drove me to and raped me whilst I was drunk and grieving for my child I lost 4 weeks prior. I did report it after x2 mental breakdowns and 2 years later as I still had underwear wrapped up in back of wardrobe.
This male makes me feel sick, he rings me telling me to do this or that or he will hurt me or my husband, yes I have a husband who knows about the harassment not the violence. This male has issues with women, I’ve also researched Claire law and had info about him.
He’s on bail yet still allowed to harass me.
Constabulary: South Wales Police
Timespan: 7 years and still going on.
Did you report it to the police?: Yes
Do you want to revisit this with the police?: No
Could you tell us why not?: I don’t trust police anymore.
Your ethnicity: White British
Have you experienced suicidality due to this?: Attempted suicide more than once
Are you disabled as defined under the Equality Act 2010?: Yes
